Discovery & Dating
Find local kinky dates with our matching algorithm
Meet fellow kinksters in your area anytime.
Our BDSM dating site uses a unique algorithm to match you based on location, interests, fetishes, and more. With powerful search tools, find your perfect partner in the vibrant kink dating community.
You Will Own Have Your Personal Live Activity Feed
Find Those Who Indulge In Your Preferred Kinks And Fetishes. It's Easy To Meet New Matches.
As a user you'll have your personal activity feed to keep you updated on the kinky people who you might find interesting as well as new members. See their photos videos, read their blogs and contact them. It's your personal BDSM playground!
ID Verified Tick
More peace of mind when meeting someone new
If you verify your profile you will enjoy significantly higher engagement and match requests, thanks to the verified badge displayed on your profile. In fact, verified members experience an astounding 15 times more interaction from others. This feature not only signals your commitment but also helps us and the community combat catfishing, creating a safer environment for all.
Member Ratings
Rewards for the best experience
Every member gets a rating that you and others can vote up or down based. This encourages positive meaningful interactions and provides an opportunity to stand out if you achieve a 5 out of 5 rating. Experience dating without the frustration of unanswered messages and embrace genuine connections.
Anti-Ghosting
Incentives for the good guys
Users who consistently reply to messages are recognized with a special profile badge to show they are responsive. Before initiating a conversation, you can easily identify who has a solid track record of responding to messages. We have one click replies that you can use to let someone down nicely. It’s the nice thing to do. No stress.
Explicit Media Filter
No more surprises or uncomfortable moments
We detect and automatically blur explicit media, allowing you to decide whether you want to view it or not. Say goodbye to unsolicited and unwanted content, and enjoy an environment that respects you and puts you in charge of what you see.
Live Chat Groups
Instant action with like-minded people
Chat to other members directly with our moderated live chat service. It may be random but we don’t do toxic. Our admins are never too far away and work hard to make it a fun and welcoming place for people who stick to our community guidelines.
Private Chat Groups
Great for organising parties or just chilling with friends
Our Private Chat Groups allow you to set up chats with many other members on the App at the same time. You don’t give out your phone number using our App so it’s safer and more convenient for you.
Articles & Spaces
Show more dimensions with blogging
Our Articles & Spaces blogging area is a great way to blog and show a new side to yourself. Whether it’s your hot take on something current, a real-life story or even your own work of fiction you can show a side of your personality beyond a simple profile image. It’s also a great way to spark debate as you collect likes and comments.
Reporting & Scam Detection built in
Always on the lookout so you can focus on having fun
We are constantly monitoring for non-genuine accounts and content that we suppress and remove. You can join our army of advisors that help us keep the community safe by using the simple report button on any profile page. Do enough good deeds and we’ll even give you a badge for it.
24 hr Customer Success team
We're here for you. Anytime
You can reach us at any time if you’re stuck or need help. We have phone, live chat and a ticket submission system aligned with a detailed FAQ to help you get the most from your experience.
Best in the business
Built on a safe and secure platform
Our App is built in cooperation with our dating service provider Hubpeople.ai. HubPeople along with other industry leaders in this space promote best practice and the highest possible Trust and Safety standards.Check you some of the great Safe Dating Tips from the ODDA.